Saturday, July 17, 2010

"intelligence
is analytical rational and [gotten] thru experience"

"they [are] quick to judge"

"i feel girls generally like to alienate themselves from obvious facts
and base their every
decision
on emotions alone
wich is kinda
delusional"

lol more insights from chats with I-will-not-say-who! I don't think this is in anyway misogynist, if anyone responds violently to it. These are truths that I myself have seen in some cases, and some of which guys like myself are also guilty of, for example being quick to judge. We must all learn to leave the personal level aside when the time calls for it, and instead be objective, impartial, and rational for the sake of improvement and correction. I wonder how long it will take for people to get enlightened.

I wonder how long will it take for me to be less sensitive and insecure (it's not like I don't trust the person I love), which are two of my biggest faults.

More talk with this friend yielded a real-life scenario:
a n b r normal frens
*A borrows a book
*but using b's library card
*b agrees
*cos a dont haf library card
*i.e the limit is full
*so
a forgets to return the book
*and incurs a fine of
*5 dollars
*b receives a letter from library
*saying the book a borrowed is overdue
*he gets enraged

and phones A repeatedly
*like 10+ times in a day for a day
*but A is not able to access his own phone
*so a finally gets to use his phone
*and talks to b
*b yells at a
for not being a 'responsible person'
*a tells b he will pay the full cost of the fine
*and treat b to a meal
but a is not able to do it now
*due to his busy schedule
*b got angry again
*and after an argument
*stops being friends with a

So the conclusions we got were: that the friend is impulsive, insecure, petty, unforgiving, and other stuff which I will not bother to list. However, my friend kept on emphasizing the other party's incredible rage. It's kinda scary sometimes. Well, that's all for today!