Thursday, August 5, 2010

People have varied perceptions toward the art of love making. I may sound biased, but science-people tend to view it from the biological perspective. They will go about telling you how the sword enters the sheath in logical, scientific terms gotten from textbooks. They will tell you that there is only the orgasm and nothing else. They will consider it a bolster to their manhood/manliness if they've slept with a girl before. This is where refinement separates the superficial, narrow-minded people from the spiritual and intuitive ones.

The reason I even use the word making love is due to the utter sacredness and spirituality the term entails. Yes, I may crack dirty jokes, but when doing it with someone I love, I consider it the ultimate form of connecting two people spiritually. With eyes closed (forgive me if it gets a bit graphic/cheesy), one transcends the physical pleasure, moving into the spiritual realm of being whole/one with the other. The true art of love making will result in one calling out the other's name, embracing the entirety of the other person in one's mind, escalating to new heights together as one.

We always say making love 'TO' someone. We say having sex 'WITH' someone. When you make love to another person, you want to transfer the love you feel to another, because you cannot contain it any longer(yes yes I know what 'cannot hold it any longer' entails lah -.-). You want to share and make the other feel what you feel. Passion. Making love to someone is showing someone how one feels about him/her or appreciates him/her. Making love TO someone is about pleasing him/her first before anything else. Selflessness balanced with selfishness presents us with a give and take scenario, where things come naturally and neither wants purely to satisfy his/her carnal desires.

Don't ask me how I even got inspired to write this post LOL; all I can say is that the first paragraph has major contribution to my inspiration. Porn and whatever has long been something sordid and meaningless to me. It disgusts me to want to watch something sacred about another without knowing/loving that other person (of course I'm not disgusted by people who watch porn la. It's ok to be curious, or if they just purely want some stimulation to aid them in satisfying their desires. I'm just saying that I'm desensitized to such stuff.) Perhaps that's why I can remain loyal to the one I love, because if you even ask me to talk to random strangers or people from another country in an affectionate manner, I will feel very awkward. If people can say 'yea right' to this post, it means they don't really know me. I don't care what people think of me/bitch about me. As long as I know I have done nothing wrong or have not initiated anything wrong or unfair, I will have no regrets.